Saturday, June 16, 2012

Unit 5 Blog discussing wellness


1.  Compare and contrast the Loving Kindness exercise and the Subtle mind exercise. Explain your experience including the benefits, frustrations etc.

When comparing the two exercises I personally felt that the subtle mind audio was more soothing and aided me in reaching a point of relaxation while also focusing my mind on following the steps that it suggested. Although I did find that the concept of “breathing in” the pain and emotional turmoil of others as a method to help them alleviate their unhappiness and stress to be one which I could visualize and identify with. Being a firefighter/ paramedic I find that my life is generally dedicated to improving the lives of others, so this particular part of the exercise was something which I felt I could accomplish. I have never before been the kind of person who placed any value in the idea of conceptualizing things such as light leaving through my head or other intangible notions of the same type. However, once I began to open my mind and let go of my pre-conceived notions, I began to experience many of the benefits of these exercises.  I found that the breathing exercises in “the subtle mind” exercise were much more cleansing, calming, and focusing for me personally.

2.  Discuss the connection of the spiritual wellness to mental and physical wellness. Explain how the connection is manifested in your personal life.

I personally feel that there is a real and tangible connection between the spiritual, physical, and mental. As Dacher described in our textbook, without a healthy mind, one cannot truly experience the benefits of a healthy body or soul. The same goes for any of the relationships between these aspects. If you are not in a place of health, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, or physically, it can be nearly impossible to ever be truly “well”.  In my life, I am currently striving to reach a place of wellness. I have recently gone through the breakup of my marriage and still struggle with losing time with my son, as well as losing my home. However, as stressful and depressing as this situation has been for me, I feel that I am starting to feel like myself again. I feel like the real me; the one who enjoys life, who is confident, strong, happy, creative, and resilient is starting to come through again. I feel as though a massive weight has been lifted off of me and as a result my stress level has gone down significantly. I have begun to be able to sleep again (insomnia for 3 years) and feel as though the stress-induced stomach issues have completely subsided. This has given way to an increased sense of happiness, of balance, and of peace. So perhaps stepping away from an oppressive environment has finally allowed me to experience a sense of the flourishing that we have studied thus far. Finally, it is the reframing of my thoughts which has allowed me to get back on track and eliminate the negative emotions which were changing me as a person.

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